Leaders are readers and readers are leaders. That is the mantra that mentors used with me for as long as I can remember. In business coaching a similar frame is as relevant today, and perhaps more so given the pace-of-life, that we slow down enough to read. We benefit from giving ourselves time to think and essentially have a conversation with ourselves.
Whether when mentoring, speaking about executive business coaching, or describing my personal philosophy behind Leader’s Cut, the question often arises, “what books do you recommend.” And while I always have a current favorite, there are four timeless classics that I tout as foundational for business success.
My recommendations are based on four aspects of leadership: 1) the awareness required for personal accountability, 2) the impact of having the wrong person in the wrong seat, 3) the facts of motivation, both your own and that of your team, and 4) the impact of communication. Here are the top 4 books to level up your business in 2021.
#1 The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
In business coaching companies the four agreements book is a philosophy of positive intent, self reflection, and personal responsibility. To me it’s a constant reminder that focusing on what I say, to whom I say it, with what intent, and the effort I expend are the things that challenge me to be in a constant growth mindset.
#2 The No-Asshole Rule by Dr. Robert Sutton
After reading this, you will struggle less when expecting every member of the organization to live the core values you’ve put in place through a deep understanding of what “ends justifies the means” can do to your team and company.
#3 Drive by Daniel H. Pink
Doing the hard work of leadership, motivation is a function of autonomy, mastery, and purpose. There are specific examples of senior leaders showing me copies of this book, claiming to understand those concepts and then declaring their micromanaging ways as the secret of their performance success. There are far more examples of successful business coaching engagements where we created the structure to support every team member in their journey toward autonomy, mastery and purpose leading to shattering of previous ceilings.
#4 Verbal Judo by George Thompson
Dr. Thompson uses the five universal truths to set the condition for responding versus reacting: 1) people need to feel respected, 2) people want to be asked rather than told, 3) people need to know why, 4) people desire options rather than threats, and 5) people desire a second chance to do better. Just as the Four Agreements set the tone for mindset, Verbal Judo sets the tone for proactive, considered communication. You can think of this as a way to narrow your energy to be impactful every time. This is the answer to, “how many times do I have to …”. Pause, consider, plan, then speak. Use the energy of conversation in the direction of positive growth.
Conclusion
Investing the hours to read The Four Agreements, The No-Asshole Rule, Drive, and Verbal Judo will set the standard for you to level up your business in 2021. Each dimension of success is addressed: internal mindset, motivation, team-building, and communication; there is no circumstance, business challenge, economic impact, or other goal not tackled by getting a grip on every dimension. This is how you get durable results while enjoying the journey.
Ken Kilday is the CEO/founder of Leader’s Cut: The Ken Kilday Coaching Experience. Ken is an entrepreneur himself who designed, built, launched, and rejuvenated successful businesses and now he takes great joy in helping other businesses find success through Executive Business Coaching and as an EOS Implementer®. Ken works with owners of businesses of all sizes to implement actions, evaluate success, and adjust to new, improved habits and actions to produce repeatable and predictable outcomes independent of changing business cycles. Now is the time to start working towards your 2021 business goals by hiring a business coach for 2021. Most profitable small businesses have a business coach they work with. Contact Ken to schedule a 15-minute Meet & Greet and discover how business coaching services can help you get a jump start on 2021 NOW!